How To Change Your Clutter Habits
If you are a clutterbug, you cognize that it took some clip for the jumble to accumulate. It didn't go on overnight. And it didn't go on haphazardly. It happened as a consequence of your ideas and your habits.
Those "clutter" ideas take us to take "clutter-making" actions which turn into jumble habits. We necessitate to change our old (bad) wonts and replace them with new (good) habits. That's easier said than done, you say.
Here's a tip: Consciously alteration only one wont at a time. For example, perhaps you have got an fresh bed or chair that's now piled up with clothes. You oculus that bed with the idea "I necessitate to unclutter this material off". You travel a few items. The adjacent day, you come up home, and without thought about it, alteration your clothing and flip a shirt on top of all the other clothing on the bed.
Do you see that this is a HABIT, probably an unconscious habit? That's all it is. No shame, no blame. So how can you change this wont to a new wont that forestalls clutter? Try these steps:
1. Brand a committedness to begin a day-to-day modus operandi of changing ONE wont (example: throwing clothing on the bed) during the adjacent two weeks.
Once you've identified one wont that lends to clutter, then consciously calculate out something you can make that volition replace that habit. For example, instead of throwing your shirt on the bed, do a committedness to take the clip to hang up the shirt.
2. Uncover your ideas about that habit.
Once you have got selected the wont you desire to change, inquire yourself what travels through your caput when you are tossing the clothing on the bed. Perhaps your idea is: "I'm tired. I'll hang it up later." Or "I'll make clean this up Saturday." Or "I don't have got clip to hang it up now." Whatever the thought, it is not serving you because it is resulting in a "bad" habit.
3. Make a new idea that volition support a new, clutter-preventing habit. Repeat that idea over and over to yourself, and out loud.
For example, if you thought "I don't have got time, I'll make it after dinner". Change that idea to: "it only takes one minute to hang up and then I won't have got to believe about it". Write down your new idea about hanging up your clothes. Read it and repetition it out loud. It necessitates to acquire into your caput and experience natural, and it necessitates to crowd out your old "bad" thought.
4. Try making a game of changing this 1 habit.
Make a checkmark on your calendar every clip you hang up your clothes. Keep trying. You may forget, but that's ok. It's been a longtime habit, and it will take awhile to larn a new habit. The fast one is to remain as witting as you can and maintain going. Don't bury to honor yourself. Try not to purchase something that mightiness cause jumble ?
Once you maestro 1 new habit, then travel on to some other wont you desire to change. This method of changing is much easier and more than rewarding than trying to do many alterations at once. One success will promote you to do other little changes, which will take to less clutter, and less stress!
Copyright © 2006, by Chump Gilbert Murray and SimpleLife Organizers
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